Sabtu, 17 November 2012

Confident Sharpening Tips


1. It has a capacity Ilmiyah
Have the capacity Ilmiyah with many seeking information (knowledge) by learning. Formal academic degree necessary, but it is not everything. Despite not having a degree berderat, the tarbiyah (= education) that we have done over the years has made us have the capacity of science and glorious fikrah we can give to others.
2. Identify and Focus on Positive Potential
According Kinkin Annida, PD grow through the process and sustained effort, beginning with identifying yourself, focus on strengths and develop the positive potential.
He said, to optimally develop the potential, one needs to focus on the strengths and advantages, not on weaknesses or deficiencies him. "He must be brave and believe that he can develop the good and positive side so more willing to perform. Courage is the memimpakan success in doing something. If he succeeds, it will be an asset to increase her confidence. "
3. Utilizing Moment
According Wibowo, to train PD, Muslim women must be good at utilizing every given moment, such as speaker was unable to attend, he was ready to replace. Rest assured, he said, the nicest guy that is one of the most useful for others.
4. Build Character Leader
Wibowo said, build character and leadership ourselves, Ingga not entirely dependent on external factors. "If we live because of external factors, our life was suppressed. We behave like what the environment. "
This means that we are required to behave in accordance with the principles, values ​​and self-confidence, not the others, but still with a consciousness or knowledge. Are not we are required to study and hang out with smart people. "If baseball had trouble sciences. Iqro 'was actually explore the science for a change. Charity done with knowledge and sincerity. For example, Noah accused of crazy because it makes the ship, but no rain. He continued his work as he has information. "
5. Forcing Yourself and Consistent
Force yourself to overcome fear and nervous when starting an activity with an attitude GO (do it). Remember, actions that will heal the fears and giddy! For that, said Wibowo, one must Mujahadah linafsihi (mean it) in any business, including preaching. Having passed the first step, get up the confidence to continue to be consistent (to survive and not backward) with the behavior.
6. Training Organizations
As one of the efforts, we could have followed the self-development training to practice public speaking skills, for example. Specifically to train oral preaching skills, as this is pretty much a training mission agencies mubalighoh in a relatively short time. Involved in the organization is also a pretty good effort to hone PD.
7. Perform Engineering PD
Practice small acts, such as: trying to sit on the front row, making eye contact while talking, walk more nimble, trying to speak frankly, bright-faced smile and multiply in our daily activities. If the little things we used to do the above with sincerity and in place, God willing, this will contribute to a greater sense of PD in us when it comes to performing a pioneer and driving force of propaganda.

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